People can be so oblivious sometimes, even when things are staring them in the face and are as plain as day. Not only do they not realize when things aren't okay, they can't see when what they're doing is hurting someone else. Doesn't matter if it's directly or indirectly, it hurts to watch and know that someone else is hurting as a result of what's going on. It sucks to know that's happening and not be able to do anything about it--like offer interference, for example. It just really makes me want to shake the other person, or smack him/her upside the head for being so dense.